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NoAnswers37 (original poster member #40592) posted at 5:16 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
So, I tried to get rid of all of my XWBF's belongings from my place a month or so ago, which resulted in a huge panic attack and hysteria for a good few hours. The depression and grief just would not let me do it and it was horrendous.
So, today I grabbed some bags and filled them with everything that I gave him, he gave me or belonged to him. And all the cards and letters were ripped up into teeny little shreds 
I am so glad I finally did it and just wanted to share.
Hurrah!
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ImEnoughForMe ( member #41869) posted at 5:17 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
I did that when I was mad. It felt good.
And it feels even better as time goes by that his stuff is not in my home.
Do the best you can do until you know better. Then when you know better, do better. - Maya Angelou
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:27 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
Yay! Such a great step forward to have all that out of your space. 
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NoAnswers37 (original poster member #40592) posted at 5:34 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
Yep, reclaiming MY home!
Was quite satisfying throwing a rather expensive suit in the bin. Ha! 
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thyme2go ( member #12908) posted at 6:18 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
Why not donate the suit to Goodwill or some similar charity?
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NoAnswers37 (original poster member #40592) posted at 8:40 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
I'm afraid I acted a bit on impulse and it's in the bin now. I do donate other clothes (my own), but for some reason I just did not think of that with his stuff.
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