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Celebrating D Day 4th anniversary

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 timeforchange (original poster member #27454) posted at 7:26 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014

The day that changed my world was 4 years ago today.

Tonight I am raising my glass to myself and my boys and our new life.

We survived and thrived big time 😀😀😀😀

I decided on D day that I would not reconcile... Best decision I ever took.

Life 4 years ago was full of emotional and physical abuse. And a deep sadness and unhappiness.

His A was my golden ticket to a wonderful life.

My home is now full of happiness, laughter and love.

My kids are great and have thanked me for giving them a happy home and family to live in.

I am in love with a wonderful, kind, respectful man who I met nearly a year go on match.com.

Life is full of joy and that deserves a little celebration tonight.

Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 7:29 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014

Fantastic post, honey. Raising a glass to you and your boys as well.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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phmh ( member #34146) posted at 8:11 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014

So happy for you!

I saw someone here once call their anniversary of D-Day their reversary -- for reversing all the damage that was done by being with a cheater. I've always liked that thought.

Congrats on making some delicious lemonade out of those lemons you married.

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 11:01 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014

Nice! Here's to you timeforchange! (insert lifting glass here)

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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PhoenixRisen ( member #35912) posted at 2:17 AM on Monday, January 20th, 2014

Love the "golden ticket" analogy

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Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 10:33 AM on Monday, January 20th, 2014

Love the positive update. Glad life has turned around for you.

Me: BW

Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.

Life's good.

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