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 unfound (original poster member #12802) posted at 1:06 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

saw this and thought it belonged here .

*I am allowed to be vocal about my pain if it helps me heal

*I am allowed to be sad in places other than my own head

*I am allowed to express my anger/sadness/hurt in ways that do not hurt other people

*I am allowed to speak my truth even when it makes others uncomfortable

*I am allowed to take care of myself, even if it makes people who hurt me uncomfortable

*I am allowed to create my own rules for self-care, as long as it doesn't hurt others who have my best interest at heart.

ka-mai
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Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."

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steadfast1973 ( member #24719) posted at 1:12 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

Yes.

Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"

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PhoenixRising88 ( member #35214) posted at 1:12 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

YEPPERS!!!!!

And I would add one:

- I am allowed to not be okay with being treated poorly.

[This message edited by PhoenixRising88 at 7:13 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)]

Me: BS(45)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(52). D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/13. Divorced 1/10/14.

New chapter of my life- married 11/13/15 to the man I'd thought I would never find.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.

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cl131716 ( member #40699) posted at 1:18 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

I like the sound of that!

Me BS 33 Him WS 37
Together 6 years, married almost 4 years
D-day: 07/23/13 EA with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out about a past kiss
D-day: 05/30/16 Saw first text message from new COW
D-day: 09-08-16 Dr. Fone confirmed EA

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EB1541 ( member #42143) posted at 1:41 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

Thanks! This really hit home for me.

D-day Jan. 2, 2014
Just married Nov. 3, 2013
My age: 23 his age:27
One wonderful son together

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Coachdig10 ( member #41706) posted at 1:57 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

I have to keep telling myself these things. I am allowed....

BS- 42
WS- 36
Married 16
Kids- 3
DDay 1/17/13

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wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 2:58 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live

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brokendancer7 ( member #39911) posted at 3:06 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

I am allowed to like that post!

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Jennifer99 ( member #39551) posted at 1:47 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

I need to print this to keep with me!

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 1:48 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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