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whereismylove (original poster member #41794) posted at 12:41 AM on Saturday, February 1st, 2014
I want to reconcile with my husband, don't know if it will work but I want to try. Here is the problem how do I deal with the issue that he kept on with her after d day. On the bday dday when I found him at her house.. I was insane with anger and grief because he had said it was over a couple mos earlier yet I found out later (via texts he wrote down to save for himself!)that after I kicked him out he spent the next three days with her having a love fest . The other issue is that he only stopped because she moved away. I'm coming to a place where I want to try reconciliation but can that happen with someone who only stopped due to ow leaving him? Help!!
[This message edited by whereismylove at 6:42 PM, January 31st (Friday)]
DDay: Nov.6th, Dec 24, Dec.27(2013) Jan 10th(2014)text contact after she moved (feb- july 2014.) Another text episode 1/9/15
Me : BS, 37. awesome doting wife&mom. (Also a chump for staying )
Him: WS, 43. EU
OW: 1/2 his age,engaged,& his employee
Keepcalm ( member #36234) posted at 2:25 AM on Saturday, February 1st, 2014
You can want to reconcile, but does he? Is he willing to do the work? Is he TRULY remorseful?
Actions will speak louder than words. I would give it a try, but be alert for obfuscation.
BS Me 57
WS Him 55
Married 30 yrs
DDay 1/28/2012
I have no idea what is going on
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