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Reconciliation :
the trouble with triggers

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 morethantrying (original poster member #40547) posted at 11:40 PM on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014

So you are going along in the morning just doing just fine when something hits you...subtle and you are not even quite aware and then suddenly it is time-warp travel back to the moment of discovery (or there about)...and you know this in your brain, that is it NOT happening again, but your feelings decide to go otherwise...and then comes the "ok, rethinking, all is okay, now, he is not doing that now, it is over, you are fine....man it is exhausting.....

Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 57
Him: WS 64
Married 34 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...

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AML04 ( member #39682) posted at 12:23 AM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014

It f'n sucks!!! I'm so tired of them.

Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

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hopefulmother ( member #38790) posted at 12:30 AM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014

It is exhausting, but focus on the fact that you have less than when you first found out....

Me-BW 44
WH-44 zugzwang
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends since 1993
Married 2004 with 2 children
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.

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 morethantrying (original poster member #40547) posted at 1:07 AM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014

good point hopefulmother!!!!

Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 57
Him: WS 64
Married 34 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...

posts: 342   ·   registered: Sep. 4th, 2013
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