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Chippednotbroken (original poster member #40170) posted at 1:18 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2014
I filed and he was served Tuesday. He wants me to go to MC today. I feel like I'm still in crazy town. He just makes me angry. Why on earth would I want to go to MC? In my mind I haven't been married for a long time. He says he can't even think of dating. He had a LTA while I was pregnant.
Crazy town and he is the mayor.
Me 34 (former BS)
Happily Divorced November 17, 2014.
3 young kids all under 9.
"I'm sorry you don't like my honesty. But to be fair, I don't like your lies."
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 9:09 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2014
Ignore. Crickets. NC. Whatever you want to call it...NO WAY!!! 
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 9:39 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2014
Crickets.
He's nervous now that he's been served and is trying to hoover you back in.
No one changes in 2 days, let alone a wayward who is the mayor of Crazytown.
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 9:52 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2014
No one changes in 2 days, let alone a wayward who is the mayor of Crazytown.
Crickets ...
Chippednotbroken (original poster member #40170) posted at 11:19 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2014
Yeah you all will love this, I ended up going. It was his counselor who asked him why he had me there. Then proceeded to tell him to leave me alone, stop texting me and move on with his life. It was actually kind of nice. Don't think it worked but hey whatever.
Me 34 (former BS)
Happily Divorced November 17, 2014.
3 young kids all under 9.
"I'm sorry you don't like my honesty. But to be fair, I don't like your lies."
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 11:23 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2014
I hope it helped you feel better about your decision. Now, NC him. If his IC sees it and is saying it, he isn't doing the work he needs to do to be a proper husband to you.
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
Chippednotbroken (original poster member #40170) posted at 12:01 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
Yep right back to crickets. It was just nice to hear someone else tell him that there is no reason for me to be with him and that he needs to focus on himself and let me heal.
He of course texted me a few hours later that he has a gift for me so it seems he still isn't paying attention.
Me 34 (former BS)
Happily Divorced November 17, 2014.
3 young kids all under 9.
"I'm sorry you don't like my honesty. But to be fair, I don't like your lies."
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