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The best part of VD is I got my date!

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 dmari (original poster member #37215) posted at 12:48 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014

Court date, that is!!

One minute before entering my therapist office, I check my email on my phone. I read an email from my attorney that said our court date is on May 29!! I walked into her office and screamed with relief and joy that it will soon be officially over.

The timing (although it took long enough) is perfect. It's after my spring semester and before my birthday in June! I am so grateful and excited.

Emotionally I am done done done done done done with stbx. The court will hopefully enforce financial obligations regarding the kids. This is the part I am looking forward to. I need him to be financially accountable to the kids and if he is not, then at least I can follow with contempt.

This is a true gift of love to myself ~ my future, my life, my freedom!

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 12:51 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014

Yay!!!! What a great Vday present!!!

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:52 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 1:48 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014

Happy for you Dmari!!

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

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Sparkles ( member #39901) posted at 1:55 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014

That's good news! It's a nice feeling when you take a step forward.

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jackie89 ( member #38271) posted at 2:06 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014

Soo jealous!

Can't wait until this day comes!

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Chippednotbroken ( member #40170) posted at 2:11 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014

April14th for me, although if he won't agree to something's I guess it could take longer.

Me 34 (former BS)
Happily Divorced November 17, 2014.
3 young kids all under 9.
"I'm sorry you don't like my honesty. But to be fair, I don't like your lies."

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