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 kourt090 (original poster member #34926) posted at 4:12 AM on Friday, February 21st, 2014

She is a BS whose WS had, what he claims, was a strictly emotional affair with a barely legal young woman a few years ago. Yesterday, she showed up for work late (she is always an hour early) and looked exhausted. She told me that she woke up last night to find that her husband was not in bed. She looked around the house and finally found him when she went back into the bedroom. She found him with his phone in hand and despite her multiple requests for him to hand over the phone, he refused until he had deleted several pictures. From the glimpse she caught, they were of naked women. She was devastated. I am devastated for her. I cannot imagine experiencing the heartbreak or distrust again. She is not sure if it was pornography or if it was sent to him by someone. She also told me that they have not had sex in three years. He is a large man and claims his size has a lot to do with that. Why? Why do they hurt us in the first place? But DDay #2? Secrets? Lies? Why? My heart is just broke for her.

Kourt090

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Flourgirl ( member #40937) posted at 7:31 AM on Friday, February 21st, 2014

Did he go to IC the first time. Whatever is broken in him needs to be fixed. Ugh so frustrating that he keeps hurting her. Why are people so broken.

BS me 39
WH him 40
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids

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million tears ( member #24416) posted at 6:33 PM on Friday, February 21st, 2014

That is so sad. I just want to take people like that home with me.

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