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myowndystopia (original poster member #41340) posted at 3:25 AM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
I received a very lengthy text from STBXWH this evening at 5:30. I did good with the crickets for about 3 hours. Couldn't hold it in any longer and had to respond. I kept saying over and over and over .....crickets - but in the end they got loose and I texted back. I didn't rant and held my composure because it's in writing. He is waiting for first draft of the divorce agreement and it seems to be getting under his skin a little. My favorite part of his text-
Alimony- NO
Just to warn him- I did say alimony was being requested. Really no surprise there- it was in the divorce complaint. And EVERY lawyer I consulted with said because of long term marriage - alimony would be requested! He doesn't have a lawyer but has consulted with some. I wonder what they have told him?
Ok, gathering up my crickets again.
Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)
"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 3:31 AM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
You do what you gotta do ... Now may the super cricket force be with you!!!
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 4:15 AM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
Please tell me you answered:
Delusional- YES
That guy...
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
roarlouder ( member #40921) posted at 4:21 AM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
I hope you find the crickets - they can be sneaky.
DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids
LoveHerStill ( member #31504) posted at 7:01 AM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
I get it.
Herding crickets has proven to be as difficult as herding my cats!
Get a lawyer for your divorce. You will need one! It will also help with the crickets.
Peace to you.
Me BH-45 @ Dday
Her WW-44 @ Dday
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011
It only hurts when I breathe.
myowndystopia (original poster member #41340) posted at 7:11 AM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
LHS- never fear - I got a lawyer! Hopefully a good one. STBXWH didn't have one but the texts are flowing pretty late here and one text did mention he had a lawyer now. He must be a little anxious. And unfortunately we are in a bit of a text war tonight. I'm good though. I frequently have sleepless nights so it's giving me something to do. I'm glad he is having a sleepless night as well. Worried? Feeling guilty? Frustrated? At least I know he is alone---- he's just across the hall. 
Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)
"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 11:14 AM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
When I was so tempted that sitting on my damned hands didn't work I imagined that fucker gorging on ego kibbles every time I responded.
It won't feel fun in the morning. Please stop yourself. Post responses here - make them furious and/or hilarious. We'll appreciate it - he never will.
Starve that fucker. Starve him good.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
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