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InnerLight (original poster member #19946) posted at 8:33 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/michele-weinerdavis/my-affair-just-happened_b_4893157.html
I appreciate when people get it. So many don't!
BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
Merlin ( member #30221) posted at 8:46 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
Among the lamest statements spoken on planet Earth.
Interesting it comes up so often here.
Often followed by all manner of idiotic statements designed to produce sound but not sense.
"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence
Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 8:48 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
haven't yet read the link.
just wanted to pipe up and say the 'it just happened' or 'I didn't mean for it to happen' makes me see RED. You are not a f'ing victim, you are a perpetrator!
I got this so many times, hence why he is now an x. Tell me how 'didn't mean for it to happen' equates to purchasing an airplane ticket and arranging it with your whore before you get there to meet up and refuckfest?? So many deliberate actions = did mean for it to happen, planned and you paid for it to happen. FTG.
apologies it just makes me see red
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 8:54 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
read the post
Affairs aren't spontaneous; they require planning and decision-making
Unhappy marriages don't cause infidelity. Being unfaithful causes infidelity.
^^so very true
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 11:11 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
Good article. Ironically written by the author of a book MrH read when I kicked him out in '97... Before his first A.
Pretty much the only time he read books to try and help the M on his own. The other was Mars vs. Venus. Guess he only took them to heart long enough to win me back.
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
annb ( member #22386) posted at 11:22 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014
Great article! 
Breezy150 ( member #42421) posted at 1:09 AM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
Great article, I think I will have my WH read it. I heard "we didn't mean to" "It was an accident" and "we never meant to hurt you" from both WH and OW.
I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.
BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo
4everfaithful83 ( member #41761) posted at 1:37 AM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
What a great article! Thanks for the post!!
Unhappy marriages don't cause infidelity. Being unfaithful causes infidelity.
LOVED this!! ^^^^
Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...
ME: 36
1 doggie
DDay: June 24th, 2013
DDay 2 : August 22nd,2017
Left him August 26th, 2017
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