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twitching (original poster member #42399) posted at 6:52 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
I want a time machine. Just to go back a few months.
"My heart was broken and my head was just barely inhabitable. " - Anne Lamont
Allornothing ( member #42354) posted at 7:36 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
I'm pretty sure many of us would say the same thing, twitching.
Me- BS 44
Him- FWH 44
Married 20 years, Together 27
Kids- 24,23,16,15
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 7:39 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Can you set mine for about 30 years back.....
Oh the things we could change
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 7:45 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
I'll take a stop off 16 years ago please. Would be fantastic to be able to correct what unfortunately seems to have been the biggest mistake of my life (taking him back).
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
DragonBunker ( member #42551) posted at 8:35 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Yeah, me too, but only so I could go back to the time after Dday when I was getting TT and he was trying like he'll to gaslight me and I could be stronger and tell him what I knew, and absolutely insist he moved out on my terms and not his. End the relationship then instead of Bein forced to limp along, unhappy and frightened for a whole damn year just so he could feel supported and not kill himself like he threatened. To end the guilt trips. To stop all the mistreatment of me. To save myself abuses. To just end it. Oh, and also to give him that slap to the face that he worked so damn hard to deserve. He never got it. Bastard.
Never looking back with longing. Always looking forward with hope.
lovehatelove ( member #42541) posted at 9:38 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Ummm, I wish for this a lot....
when WH asks if there's anything he can do to help me, this is what I usually say.....
"Get a time machine to go back and tell your whore that you love your wife... and that you wouldn't even consider touching her with a 3,563 foot pole...."
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