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Divorce/Separation :
ex abuse your kids?

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 Jill2011 (original poster member #33893) posted at 3:43 AM on Sunday, March 16th, 2014

Anyone now moving on and dealing with ex abusing your kids?

Dday - July 21, 2011
BS - 32
WS - 36
Daugher 4
Married 9 years, together 11.
Divorcing - yahoo!

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Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 7:47 AM on Sunday, March 16th, 2014

You might have more luck in general or s/d forum than the off topic one.

I hope you and your children are ok.

Me: BW

Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.

Life's good.

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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 5:20 PM on Sunday, March 16th, 2014

Emotional abuse -yes.

Physical or sexual -no

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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CheshCat ( member #27546) posted at 6:37 PM on Sunday, March 16th, 2014

Yep.

Miserable, hellish, awfulness.

And there is NOTHING I can do about it.

He's wealthy, white, and educated.

The courts will revoke custody for 2 minutes (literally until he completes a weekend seminar IF that), and it's back to 50/50 custody.

And I'm out 10k.

Which is kind of the least of my concerns. (My ELEMENTARY aged son hung himself at his dads, serious attempt/ his blessed blessed stepmother found him and cut him down and got him medical treatment in time so he lived).

It's only a matter of time before he kills my children.

Either by snapping their necks (he likes to pick up people by their necks and throw them into walls), or by driving them to suicide.

But in trying to prolong that time, I'm increasingly in debt, and stand to lose custody MYSELF if I can't keep up on my bills.

Yeah.

Crazy world.

So. Much. Fun.

When the abusive parent can bankrupt the non-abusive parent & get full custody.

"Hard" has a completely new definition in my world.

"Another conversation killed awkwardly! Yes! Point to my side." - Chesh's Brother

Moi : BS MH 30mumble
Him : WS Abuse Adultery Addict Six-figure Sociopath = Aaass
... I picked a winner!
DDay - 2006 ad naseam
Divorced! 2013

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:30 PM on Sunday, March 16th, 2014

(((((Jill2011 & DD)))))

(((((Kajem & kids)))))

(((((CheshCat & kids)))))

[This message edited by SI Staff at 1:30 PM, March 16th (Sunday)]

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