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thenon-goddess (original poster member #31229) posted at 11:23 AM on Friday, March 21st, 2014
What do I do if he won't sign the acknowledgement of receipt of summons?
one2ndchance ( member #14759) posted at 5:37 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014
I'm assuming they were mailed to him and he hasn't responded. You will have to contact your lawyer. He will have to hire a professional process server that will deliver the papers to him personally at his place of employment or his residence.
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Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 5:55 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014
I think I remember you saying you're working on this without laywers. If so, you can google "process servers in ..." for your area. They're expensive, but very necessary in these cases.
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mof2 ( member #40287) posted at 6:03 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014
Did you serve WS? They basically have to sign if they are served.
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Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 6:08 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014
In most states, you cannot serve the other party.
Did a process server serve the paperwork on him? If so, they normally file a form that indicates they served the individual.
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thenon-goddess (original poster member #31229) posted at 8:35 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014
Thanks. Yes, Gemeni, no lawyers. I had to call around today, apparently I can have the sheriffs office serve for $30 an attempt.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:24 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014
Well then, since he's deciding to make you spend money to have him served, make sure that you send the process server where he is sure to find your STBX. Like, at his work. 
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