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DTERMINED2SURVIV (original poster member #42294) posted at 9:45 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
If you had one hour left on this earth, What would you say to your FWS/BS?
Edit to add BS so fws may respond!
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Wodnships ( member #42750) posted at 9:51 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
If I had one hour left I'm not sure what I would say, but I can tell you the affair would be the last thing I wanted to talk about.
me: BH 37
Her: WW 29
Married 6 years. Dating 10. Living together 8.
If a man took his time on earth
to prove be for he died
what on man's life could be worth
I wonder what would happen to the world
- Harry Chapin
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 9:56 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
If I had one hour left, my XWH would be the last person on a long list of people to whom I would want to speak.
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Merlin ( member #30221) posted at 9:56 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
I wouldn't waste a single second on her.
"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence
Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 10:04 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
I would not waste a single second of my life on him at all. He doesn't deserve my thoughts or any part of me. Not one thought, not one word, not even a glance.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 10:23 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
Get your ass in the car and meet me at the shore, so we can watch the earth end together.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 10:26 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
My son would get every second of my last hour.
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Brandon808 ( member #35619) posted at 10:30 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
Thank you for my step-daughter. Being part of her life was/is a blessing. Can't regret that.
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 10:49 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
"you are a good man. I'm so sorry."
gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 10:55 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
I would not spend one moment of my last hour on XWH. I already wasted enough of my life on him.
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
Garnet ( member #39070) posted at 11:07 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
Last hour......... Would beat the life out of skank whore for 20 minutes then spend the rest with my 3 kids!!!!! Oh that felt good !!! Thanks for the thread!!!
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 11:21 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
Not a thing. There are many things I'd want to fit into that hour, and speaking with him does not even come close to making the list.
Seriously, if I had a month, I'm not sure he'd make the cut.
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 11:28 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
If it were just my hour and the Earth would be intact after I was gone?
I'd be leaving exactly 59 minutes of details on how to take care of DD and how I hope she would be raised. 1 minute for ILY's and a promise to go find his mom on the other side.
If it's the end of the world, I think Crazz would be on board to make it the best damned hour of DD's life.
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"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Embers2Fire ( member #25557) posted at 11:42 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
Your not an evil man your just a flawed man who made mistakes you could not undo. Forgive yourself because I have and so has God, I really did survive, I am really ok now, so you really need to move on. Thank you for my sons they are the very best thing in my life. I would kiss him on the cheek then I would walk away hand in hand with my new husband and my awesome sons and leave this earth with their faces as the last earthly image I beheld.
BS - me 49
XWH - him 48
DDay 05/08
Married 25 yrs, 2 sons 28/23
Divorced
2nd Marriage 11/1/13 livng the dream
God has breathed new life into me fanning my fading Embers into a brightly burning Fire.
justinpaintoday ( member #42858) posted at 11:53 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
Seriously, if I had a month, I'm not sure he'd make the cut
Thats funny
I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.
Credence ( member #42682) posted at 11:53 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
I'm going out for an hour
If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting what you always got
CheshCat ( member #27546) posted at 11:58 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
Nothing. :D
There is no way on earth I'd spend my last hour on earth having anything to do with him. Especially not wasting any time thinking & or talking to him.
I'd rather think about the people in my life that I actually love, and about all the joy Obe been so fortunate to experience. From roller skating & lemonade stands as a kid, to besties & adventures, to kissing my own kids goodnight, and snuggling up with my teens watching movies.
I'd probably reminisce over a colonoscopy before I spent any time reminiscing over my ex.
He's just not on my bucket list.
>^..^<
"Another conversation killed awkwardly! Yes! Point to my side." - Chesh's Brother
Moi : BS MH 30mumble
Him : WS Abuse Adultery Addict Six-figure Sociopath = Aaass
... I picked a winner!
DDay - 2006 ad naseam
Divorced! 2013
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 12:04 AM on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014
My kids,my granddaughter, my.parents, and my sisters would get my time...him I would prob ask him to get his shit straight for his own good and for his children's..that would take about 2 min and that's all he would get.
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
Howie ( member #41922) posted at 1:00 AM on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014
I am afraid that part of that last hour I'd still be asking "Why?" I've done every conceivable work on that question and I will go to my grave and still never understand in my heart "why". Why did you so lightly, cheerfully and utterly betray me?
msmaggiemags ( member #7484) posted at 1:29 AM on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014
My kids and I would spend every single minute of it together talking about how they need to take care of each other, and about how they are both blessings in my life and how much I love them. WH umm..nope, no time for that.
Me 42
Wh 36
Ds 11
Dd 7
Dday 6/19/2005, LTA and Oral pleasures, dday#2 Jan/2011 EA, dday #3 Nov/2013 pornographic pics of "friends"
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