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any spouses of CO's out there?

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 Alyssamd24 (original poster member #39005) posted at 1:26 AM on Monday, April 28th, 2014

Just wondering if anyone here has a SO who is a CO (corrections officer)? I am new to the club and am hoping to find other members.

I have looked online to see if there are any forums or groups, but haven't found anything...other than FB which I am not on.

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Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 2:08 AM on Monday, April 28th, 2014

Mine works in a jail as a kitchen supervisor, but is in the process of interviewing for a CO position. He has his poly on may 6th.

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 Alyssamd24 (original poster member #39005) posted at 2:19 AM on Monday, April 28th, 2014

I wish him luck. When/if he gets it lets chat!!

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mixedemotions ( member #35810) posted at 4:43 AM on Monday, April 28th, 2014

I volunteer at a jail twice a week and work with women who've recently transitioned out of incarceration too. Not a CO or dating one, but if you're just looking for connections with people who experience jail culture I'm happy to chat about it

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 5:02 AM on Monday, April 28th, 2014

There is a LEO thread in the I Can Relate forum. It's not very active, but it's there.

My X is a CO-has been for 15 years-and was NYPD before he was injured and had to retire. I can certainly relate to your situation. Please feel free to PM if you need help or support with anything.

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