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This is what true class looks like

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 Afraid2LoveAgain (original poster member #11185) posted at 5:14 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

Over the weekend I attended the wedding of a dear friend's oldest child. Her POS XH left her for the OW years ago.

My friend and the now OWife sat together in the first pew. My friend was gracious and radiant, as she always is. The OWife looked like a crack whore (apologies to crack whores).

My friend is the definition of class and graciousness. I'm sure her XH kicks his own ass every time he looks at OWife.

BW -- 58
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 6:03 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

on the apologies

Your friend is truly classy.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:18 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

My friend and the now OWife sat together in the first pew.

Your friend is amazing and inspiring. I don't know many people who could do this while radiating grace and class. Her XH SHOULD kick his own ass. Nonstop.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 6:29 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

Those are some lucky kids to have a mom like that!

I strive to never make my children uncomfortable. If that means I have to suck it up and sit next to my ex and make small talk…so be it. My kids come first.

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

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abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 7:22 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

That IS classy. Kudos to her and congratulations to her child!

WHERE'S THE PUDDING?!

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:33 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

She has a lot of class, dignity, and grace.

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stronger08 ( member #16953) posted at 8:06 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

The OWife looked like a crack whore (apologies to crack whores)

Holy shit !!!! That's the best laugh I've had in weeks. And kudos to your friend for being so classy.

You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

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Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 9:35 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

That's wonderful. I did much the same for my daughter's wedding. It was important to do that for my daughter. I even danced once with my ex.

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trumanshow ( member #25624) posted at 9:44 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

I can be civil to the ex. The OW? Nope. Best I could do is try to ignore her

remarried 11-15-15

Her prize is a man who ran out on his wife and children. His is a woman who is too stupid to understand that she is not special, she is simply there.

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 11:30 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

Ugh. Good for her.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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