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Afraid2LoveAgain (original poster member #11185) posted at 5:14 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014
Over the weekend I attended the wedding of a dear friend's oldest child. Her POS XH left her for the OW years ago.
My friend and the now OWife sat together in the first pew. My friend was gracious and radiant, as she always is. The OWife looked like a crack whore (apologies to crack whores).
My friend is the definition of class and graciousness. I'm sure her XH kicks his own ass every time he looks at OWife.
BW -- 58
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 6:03 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:18 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014
My friend and the now OWife sat together in the first pew.
Your friend is amazing and inspiring. I don't know many people who could do this while radiating grace and class. Her XH SHOULD kick his own ass. Nonstop.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 6:29 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014
Those are some lucky kids to have a mom like that!
I strive to never make my children uncomfortable. If that means I have to suck it up and sit next to my ex and make small talk…so be it. My kids come first.
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 7:22 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014
That IS classy. Kudos to her and congratulations to her child!
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:33 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014
She has a lot of class, dignity, and grace. 
stronger08 ( member #16953) posted at 8:06 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014
The OWife looked like a crack whore (apologies to crack whores)
Holy shit !!!! That's the best laugh I've had in weeks. And kudos to your friend for being so classy.
You cant eat soup with chopsticks.
Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 9:35 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014
That's wonderful. I did much the same for my daughter's wedding. It was important to do that for my daughter. I even danced once with my ex.
trumanshow ( member #25624) posted at 9:44 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014
I can be civil to the ex. The OW? Nope. Best I could do is try to ignore her
remarried 11-15-15
Her prize is a man who ran out on his wife and children. His is a woman who is too stupid to understand that she is not special, she is simply there.
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 11:30 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2014
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
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