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Alyssamd24 (original poster member #39005) posted at 11:28 PM on Monday, May 26th, 2014
Today BH, DD, and I went to a cookout at my in-laws. Since its Monday my BH could only stay til 12:30... I had assumed that when he left DD and I would also leave.
But surprisingly my MIL offered to give me and DD a ride home later in the afternoon when we were ready to leave...I was shocked that she offered cuz I didnt think she would want me to stay once my BH left.
I ended up leaving with my BH so I could pick up my car and then went back to my inlaws and DD and I spent two more hours there! !
Sometimes the worst thing that happens to you.....the thing you think you can't survive....its the thing that makes you better than you used to be.
badchoice ( member #35566) posted at 11:30 PM on Monday, May 26th, 2014
Really happen for you and the family. Makes me happy to see progress!
Me: fWH/BH 46
Separated transitioning to D
timidhope ( member #43189) posted at 12:56 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
I'm happy to hear things are progressing with your bh's family as well! It's so much easier for him if his family is willing to support his decision to stay and r.
Mrs Panda ( member #27303) posted at 12:59 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
That is a big step. I know how you felt that MIL has isolated you. Did you tell BH how happy that made you?
Me-48 FWW Him 51BH
M 20 years,. Fully Reconciled ❤️.
DDay#1 Nov 2008
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Prior A from 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut
Alyssamd24 (original poster member #39005) posted at 1:51 AM on Tuesday, May 27th, 2014
Yes I did! I told him I was surprised but extremely happy about it and that this was a huge thing...he agreed and also seemed very happy about it!
And the best thing is it wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be...I spent most of the time sitting with my MIL and SIL and talking with them.
Sometimes the worst thing that happens to you.....the thing you think you can't survive....its the thing that makes you better than you used to be.
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