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 hurtbs (original poster member #10866) posted at 7:44 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

My big baby girl (9.5 year old mastiff) is having hind leg problems. She had this issue last Fall and vet thought it was a minor stroke. She suddenly struggles with being able use her back right leg and her back left leg is also week. She cannot correct her toes (when you curl them under). When I touch her leg, hip, and back she does not react as though it is painful. She doesn't want to walk at all - usually when a dog injures a leg then can do the three legged hobble.

I have an appointment at her vet in an hour. This came on suddenly and progressively became worse. Maybe it's an injury, maybe musculo-skeletal. Not sure. Really worried. Please, keep me in your thoughts. At 9.5 years she is a "senior mastiff" but has been in exceptional health until the incident in the Fall and now. I'm really worried that this is very serious... waiting is the worst part! Image below (she's the big baby girl on the right)

Me - 40 something. WXH DDay 2006, Divorced 2012
WBF DDay #1 9/2022 #2 11/2022
Single

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:57 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Poor sweet girl. Sending good thoughts for you both.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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Edith ( member #38337) posted at 7:57 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Oh she is beautiful! And her sibling is as well. I will keep you in my prayers. Please keep us posted.

E.

The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. John 1:5

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 7:59 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Doggie prayers and good thoughts headed your way!

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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TheRealDeal ( member #39560) posted at 8:09 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Good thoughts and prayers are being sent your way. (((hurtbs)))

Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to

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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 8:18 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Sending good thoughts and lots of mojo for your sweet baby!

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 8:22 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

She is very beautiful...sending positive thoughts.

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:25 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Sweet faces, both of them. Sending mojo.

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 8:30 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

They are beauties. My good thoughts and prayers are on the way.

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k9lover1 ( member #8531) posted at 8:55 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Sending good thoughts your way. Such beautiful animals and I'll bet they are great companions and loved very much.

D-Day was 10/9/05
He promised NC. He lied. After 4 chances, I kicked him out 1/05/06.
Since then I have survived cancer surgery and a heart attack.
Now he's sorry, but it's too late. He died an alcoholic on 9/5/17.

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Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 8:59 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Sending strength and good positive mojo your sweet girls way.

She is so beautiful. I love big dogs.

BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"

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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 9:43 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Oh I just want to give her a snuggle . She's beautiful hurtbs. Sending all my mojo that she feels better soon.

Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.

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Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 9:52 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

My very best thoughts for your big, beautiful girl.

Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 10:01 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Awwww... she's GORGEOUS! Sending good thoughts to you both!

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 hurtbs (original poster member #10866) posted at 10:01 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Vet is nearly positive it's hip dysplasia. They gave me a referral to an orthopedic surgeon (can't see her until the end of next week) :/ Apparently, hip dysplasia cane have a sudden onset of symptoms. Shocking that it was never seen in her before now (9.5 years old). At her age, surgery is not really feasible so I guess I will be pursuing medical management. They gave me a ton of pills - pain killers, NSAIDs, and some Glucosomine (which I will wait to add to her diet until she can go to the bathroom without discomfort - don't want her getting diarrhea on herself).

Such a pricy problem...

Me - 40 something. WXH DDay 2006, Divorced 2012
WBF DDay #1 9/2022 #2 11/2022
Single

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luvbug0915 ( member #22934) posted at 11:33 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Sending positive mojo that the meds help your baby girl.

"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 11:36 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Awww...poor baby. I hope you can find a way to make her comfortable. I know what it's like to have an unwell mastiff; they are such wonderful fur babies.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

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D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 11:52 PM on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014

Sending mojo and good thoughts. I hope the meds and orthopedic can help. Your dogs are beautiful.

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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 12:09 AM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014

I keep coming back to look at your baby. Her face is so sweet. How could anybody not want to snuggle with her and your other baby all of the time?

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 12:14 AM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014

lots and lots of mojo!

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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