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rollerager (original poster member #39175) posted at 2:45 PM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
It's only been a week and a half and I thought I was doing good with the feelings but so far this morning it has been rough. The lonely feelings are sinking in and I really hate this... I just don't know what to do.
The only person I really have is my cousin, but she's a manager at her store so she works a lot. I don't really have friends because I never had time for any in my relationship (because I took care of everything). Also it's hard to get out with both the kids because my son can be really difficult and I also have an almost 7 month old daughter.
I normally try to keep myself busy so I don't think but it seems the thoughts have caught up to me today. We have an appt at 9:15 and then once my mom and brother get home I am going to try to get to the counselor. They couldn't see me yesterday because I wasn't early enough (It's a walk in).
I just hate the lonely feelings... :(
BS 22
WS 26
D-Day #1 EA/PA Oct 2011
D-Day #2 EA/PA Feb 2012
D-Day #3 EA/PA Mar 2012
^On going affair with former girlfriend.
D-Day #4 PA April 2013
D-Day #5 PA May 2014
I cannot see any hope in R, I am truly shattered.
seethelight ( member #43513) posted at 2:52 PM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
Rollerrager:
Come here to vent. You are not alone. There are many here who feel just as lonely as you do.
Being cheated on makes us feel lonely.
It's normal.
“If two people truly have feelings for one another then they don’t have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort out their feelings. You are accountable for the people you hold hostage in a marriage when your mind and heart refuse to fully commit
Scubadoo ( member #43079) posted at 3:00 PM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
Post hear often. We hear you and are here for you. There are so many people here with a wealth of experience and knowledge. You are truly in good hands.
I know the loneliness can feel overwhelming some times, but now you don't have to be alone. There are friends here.
BS (me) 42
WS (him) 48
OW (downgrade) 48
Married 11 yrs
DS 9
DD 8
D-day 10/27/13
8mth
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 3:41 PM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
Posting here can be very therapeutic. You can get it all out, its like poison leaving your body. I'm sorry your hurting. Sucks, I know and your not alone, we've all been touched by infidelity.
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
bionicgal ( member #39803) posted at 3:42 PM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
This place has been a lifesaver for me -- not many people know in real life, so keep posting, and hang in there.
me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.
rollerager (original poster member #39175) posted at 4:25 PM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
Thank you guys so much. The kiddos have been doing very well at adjusting so I am thankful for that.
I should have everything moved out this weekend, he said he didn't want to be at the apartment when I did but that he would take the kids afterwards.
So maybe I can get some time to just take care of myself then.
BS 22
WS 26
D-Day #1 EA/PA Oct 2011
D-Day #2 EA/PA Feb 2012
D-Day #3 EA/PA Mar 2012
^On going affair with former girlfriend.
D-Day #4 PA April 2013
D-Day #5 PA May 2014
I cannot see any hope in R, I am truly shattered.
seethelight ( member #43513) posted at 6:33 PM on Wednesday, June 4th, 2014
I am sorry for all your pain Rollerager.
I will keep you in my meditations and prayers.
“If two people truly have feelings for one another then they don’t have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort out their feelings. You are accountable for the people you hold hostage in a marriage when your mind and heart refuse to fully commit
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