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tornapartheart (original poster member #43890) posted at 11:05 PM on Friday, June 27th, 2014
Did you make a written contract for R?
I'm thinking I will make a contract and present it to WS today, and if he doesn't want to abide by it, I have all his clothes and belongings already packed and by the door.
What were some rules you established for a successful R?
peoplepleaser ( member #41535) posted at 11:15 PM on Friday, June 27th, 2014
Read the thread in here called "Before you say R..." It's wonderful for laying out the needs of a BS.
I had these:
100% transparency and accountability
Expressed remorse
IC
MC
Recognizing that I was in no way responsible for the EAs
No alone time with feminine women
The truth about the worst of what she did
I did the 180 until she agreed and we were separated in-house. I told her to start looking for an apartment when she decided to meet my needs for R.
Risk you relationship to save it.
Good luck.
XWS: 40
BS: 40
DS: 7
9 year relationship
DDay #1: September 6, 2013 EA for 5 weeks August 2013 with TT
DDay #2: January 2, 2014 EA for 6 weeks summer 2011 with TT
"I am still learning." -Michelangelo
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 11:29 PM on Friday, June 27th, 2014
check out this thread. Mhca made this list of requirements:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=534004
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