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Shinypenny (original poster new member #43702) posted at 9:36 PM on Monday, June 30th, 2014
I have a question. My WH has allowed me access to his accounts, however he admits to deleting emails and then deleting them from the deleted folder. We both have hotmail accounts. In my deleted folder it gives me the option at the bottom of the deleted folder to restore deleted emails. His does not give that option. Any ideas how I could recover them? I understand this is a shot in the dark. Just looking for the truth.
BW- 39
WH- 38
Married 2009, together since 2003
DD 2
Dday 6/10/14 multiple EA's spanning our entire relationship, 1 PA with a 24 yo.
Landoes ( member #40222) posted at 10:23 PM on Monday, June 30th, 2014
Check the sent folder, that's how I uncovered more lies
craig2001 ( member #55) posted at 10:55 PM on Monday, June 30th, 2014
When you click on the Deleted folder in Hotmail, scroll all the way to the bottom and there should be a message that says "Lost a message? When you recover deleted messages, we bring back as many as we can..."
The recover deleted messages is a link.
If you have another computer, try his hotmail on it.
Shinypenny (original poster new member #43702) posted at 11:24 PM on Monday, June 30th, 2014
Oh the sent file and I are unfortunately acquainted. That's how I found his replys to craigslist ads. And I see the lost message link in mine, but not on his. Have tried on my iPad an PC. Is there a way he disabled or hid this? Makes me crazy suspicious!
BW- 39
WH- 38
Married 2009, together since 2003
DD 2
Dday 6/10/14 multiple EA's spanning our entire relationship, 1 PA with a 24 yo.
Shinypenny (original poster new member #43702) posted at 1:29 AM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
Does anyone know if there is a way to see which numbers are being texted without looking at his phone? We have sprint and I can see his calls, but only a total number of texts. Sorry. Just obsessing again. 
BW- 39
WH- 38
Married 2009, together since 2003
DD 2
Dday 6/10/14 multiple EA's spanning our entire relationship, 1 PA with a 24 yo.
mandolin555 ( member #42476) posted at 1:55 AM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
Do you feel like this is the life you want or deserve? I think being an infidelity cop is more triggering to me than actually finding anything...because the whole time I'm searching, my heart is pounding and I feel sick...just waiting for the ax to drop!
In answer to your question...it might be best to do a voice activated recorder in his car or spyware for the phone. If you've been a member long enough or made enough posts you can find out how in that forum.
Christy516 ( member #42546) posted at 3:46 AM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
The only way to see sprint texted numbers is to go to their site, download the form requesting it, print it out, have it notarized and fax it back to them. They will then send you a disc with the numbers, times and dates only. No content. You have to be the account holder to do this. Good luck.
Me: 45 Him: 40 M May 1998
1DS 23(mine) 1 DD 15 ours
DD: 7/26/13, 9/16/13, 11/15/13, 1/5/14 ( 4 DDays over 5 months same OW - EA/PA lasting 13 months)
R until 11/20/15-kissed a friend. 11/28/15 TT 1/3/16 TT & more. Reconciling
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