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soccermom9 (original poster member #43805) posted at 9:55 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
I am 3 weeks post Dday and already had a vacation planned with my two children and my best friend July 20-25 in Florida. Should I now change that so I can stay and work on Marriage? Or continue with my plans? Will I harm anything either way?
[This message edited by soccermom9 at 6:15 PM, July 9th (Wednesday)]
Me: 44
WH: 43
Dday: 6-20-14
He admitted to drunken sex at massage parlor!
Attempting reconciliation
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 10:53 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
I assume you mean July and not June,
I went ahead and took a trip the week after d-day and took they opportunity to engage the 180. One day out and fWS was calling begging me to give her another chance.
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
healingroad ( member #41920) posted at 10:56 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
Need to answer some questions:
* Can you trust him while you're gone? Or will you just worry?
* Would some time apart help relax you?
* Are you getting traction on your R, or just spinning your wheels?
* What will he be doing?
* Can you stay in communication? Can you work on the M while you're apart?
* Would a change of plans be hard on the kids?
* What would you rather do (go or stay)?
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