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sorrowfulmate (original poster member #43441) posted at 3:40 AM on Thursday, July 17th, 2014
It's a pretty quick read.
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Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
FixYou71 ( member #42654) posted at 5:36 AM on Thursday, July 17th, 2014
An excellent source for both WS and BS. I hope you get a lot out of it.
BS:44
H: 50
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 22 and DS 18
Married 1993
sorrowfulmate (original poster member #43441) posted at 1:02 PM on Thursday, July 17th, 2014
What I'm getting out of it is how badly I've bungled trying to reconcile. Between trickle truth and other things.
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
PenitentMan ( member #43174) posted at 3:27 PM on Thursday, July 17th, 2014
On one hand, I feel like the more copies of "How to help your spouse heal from your affair" that are read, the better off this world is.
On the other hand, I wish I knew there was a PDF, so I could've saved money, considering that I've spent quite a bit on books.
On the other hand, that would be stealing, since, if you visit the website: http://www.lindajmacdonald.com/Mini-Books.html
it's clearly meant to be purchased.
Stealing is wrong, but it's not hurting anyone and linda macdonald probably made enough money from other people, right? This is actually an area I struggle with. Is it ok to pirate movies from the big movie companies who've made millions anyway by people who are willing to see it in theaters? Nobody is getting hurt, right? Where have I heard that before? Oh right, that one was already filed under my own rationalizations. 
Didn't mean to start a whole "thing" here 
But yes, don't let the brevity of this book fool you, it should be required reading for anyone in this forum, in my opinion, whether it's paid for or not. 
Me: FWH (39)
Her: BW (34)
DDay 1: March 2013 (EA/PA that *I* rugswept)
DDay 2: April 2014 (PA with double betrayal. OW was wife's friend)
Married: Since 2001
sorrowfulmate (original poster member #43441) posted at 4:56 PM on Thursday, July 17th, 2014
I will contact the website owner, it is accessible via google therefore I didn't realize it was supposed to be purchased.
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
sorrowfulmate (original poster member #43441) posted at 5:04 PM on Thursday, July 17th, 2014
I wrote the author and let her know about the link and that its google searchable.
I also offered to pay her for her book which I downloaded.
If you grabbed it off my link, please make sure you let her know and do the right thing.
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
NoGoodUsername ( member #40181) posted at 5:50 PM on Thursday, July 17th, 2014
Hey sorrowfulmate, good on you!
integrity is bigger than just your marriage. It's a good start.
Me: WH
Her: BW
Dday 7/11/13
"May you be protected from hearts that are not humble, tongues that are not wise and eyes that have forgotten how to cry."
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