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Notmetoo2011 (original poster member #32912) posted at 11:28 AM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
we got married. I was 21, he was 23.
I thought we were soul mates.
I never dreamed then that he had already cheated on me, a few weeks before we got married.
I never dreamed then that 24 years and 51 weeks later my world would be blown apart when I found out about his As and SA.
I never dreamed then that I would even consider staying with him if I found out he cheated on me, but here I am three years later.
Today I am hoping no one remembers this is the day we got married. I want to forget it. I don't want to smile at people's congratulations and pretend it is a celebration. I feel like crying. I wish I could turn the clock back and never have met him.
Me-BW 47, now 59
SAWH 48, now 60
Married 25 years, now 37years
4 children
D-Day 26/07/11
Multiple PAs, ONS, Porn
In limbo land
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:24 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
Questioningall ( member #43959) posted at 12:37 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
((((Notmetoo2011))))
I didn't want to celebrate our anniversary this year, either. I hope you have a totally ordinary day. 
Me-BS 57
Him-WS 57 Sorrowfulmate
Married 30 years, 5 kids
Dday #1 12/12 He made up a ONS
Dday #2. 3/14 EAs, 3 ONS, 2 LTA
Buttercup: We'll never survive.
Westley: Nonsense. You're only saying that because no one ever has.
crazynot ( member #24572) posted at 12:52 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
It's not too late to change your life. My 29th wedding anniversary is in a few days time, and my divorce is not yet final but the last few years without him have been some of the happiest of my life. And my kids are doing great too.
Me - 50
Him - 51
DDay 21 March 2009
Divorcing and delighted!
Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it.
devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 12:53 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
I, too, hope you have a very good ORDINARY day.
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
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