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Divorce/Separation :
WS can't look at BS

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 shiloe (original poster member #1224) posted at 1:31 AM on Friday, August 15th, 2014

I have noticed so many BS that had their ex H/W leave them when caught that the WS can't look them in the eyes anymore.

Weather it is in court or where ever, the WS just will not look them in the face. Mine is like this.

Why is this?

I have some good thoughts on it but was just curious what you all have experienced and what do you think causes this? After all, we are the awful, mean, terrible monsters that caused them to cheat

[This message edited by shiloe at 7:32 PM, August 14th (Thursday)]

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:38 AM on Friday, August 15th, 2014

This is true with wasband, although I kicked him out rather than him leaving of his own accord. In his case it's shame-based.

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southsidecali ( member #22752) posted at 3:23 AM on Friday, August 15th, 2014

That's how I always knew he was up to no good. Every single time- majority of time he was always looking for my face when he talked but once he started screwing up he wouldn't- he avoided me at all costs.

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 3:55 AM on Friday, August 15th, 2014

He stopped looking me in the eyes when I got pregnant, and he only barely looked me in the eyes for several years before that. I was at one point convinced that he was on the autism spectrum, to be perfectly honest. I now think he just honestly hated & despised me that much, plus he probably did feel an overwhelming sense of guilt & shame.

Considering how much it made him sick to be around me (his phrase), I will always wonder why he didn't just divorce me.

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Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
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2013 - DIVORCED!
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