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Reconciliation :
ideas for recommitting

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 heartslammedshut (original poster new member #38614) posted at 3:27 AM on Friday, August 29th, 2014

Today is the 2 year anniversary of the dreaded phone call from the whore. I feel like I have been through hell and finally I see daylight. He is being supportive, and taking responsibility for destroying the life we had built and the damage he has caused.I need some sort of recommitment. I just feel like he broke all of the promised he made and I need him to re-promise that he "will be faithful forsaking all others as long as we both shall live" I don't want to renew our wedding vows in a ceremony, I don't think this is a celebration like the wedding was. This is far more sacred to me. I just need an idea to really make this special. It only needs to be the two of us. That is all I have so far...Any ideas would be helpful

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Amazingyetlost ( member #43745) posted at 4:51 AM on Friday, August 29th, 2014

heartslammedshut

well, I am certainly far from this point in my M and may not get there, but if I were dreaming about what would move me and be meaningful in a re-commitment, it would be to return to the place where WH and I met, have some time in quiet consideration of who we were then and what we have become, and have ready a new set of commitments ( rather than vows) which we exchanged either with someone to bless, or if blessing was not meaningful, we exchanged these commitments along with some action or symbol to show new life.

Yeah... I'm hoping in the future I can do the above, but I hope it gives you some ideas for yours

ME: 63 BW
HIM: 62 EA & PA, ten months (madboomer)
Married: December 24th, 2013; he started the A in the months before wedding
D/Day: June 3rd 2014 (karma bus ran them over on OW birthday); NC June 4th 2014
Just sad all of the time

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