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Freebygrace (original poster member #42484) posted at 8:35 PM on Monday, January 15th, 2018
Any techy people in here who would know about installing a keylogger on an iPhone? I found one that says the phone must be jail broke? I have no clue what that means. I can get into the phone, I have the password. But I think he’s deleting stuff before I see it.
Any ideas?
Me: BS 49
Him: WH 52 ( lane444) married 26 years. 16 kids from 28-2 years old
OW #1 my friend, 1st year of marriage dday 3/17
OW #2 his ex gf in 1993, he claims ONS Dday 10/17
OW #3 my BFF NC broken 2x ( after 17 years of false R)
DIVORCIED
WornDown ( member #37977) posted at 4:16 AM on Tuesday, January 16th, 2018
Pretty sure Apple doesn't allow those through the App store, so yes it has to be jailbroke.
That means it's software has been altered to do things Apple wouldn't normally allow - you broke it out of Apple "jail". Someone is likely to notice it's been broke, so it's pretty much impossible to install a key logger (at least from my experience - but that was 5 years ago)
Me: BH (50); exW (49): Way too many guys to count. Three kids (D, D, S, all >20)Together 25 years, married 18; Divorced (July 2015)
I divorced a narc. Separate everything. NC as much as humanly possible and absolutely no phone calls. - Ch
Freebygrace (original poster member #42484) posted at 4:22 AM on Tuesday, January 16th, 2018
Ah, that makes sense. Thank you. I guess I’ll try to figure out something else
Me: BS 49
Him: WH 52 ( lane444) married 26 years. 16 kids from 28-2 years old
OW #1 my friend, 1st year of marriage dday 3/17
OW #2 his ex gf in 1993, he claims ONS Dday 10/17
OW #3 my BFF NC broken 2x ( after 17 years of false R)
DIVORCIED
swatter555 ( member #60555) posted at 4:45 AM on Tuesday, January 16th, 2018
If you have access, you can have every text he sends and receives sent to you phone. If your interested, I’ll post more details. It is an built in phone function.
BS 44
WS 39
DDay July 15,2017
DDay 2 August 9, 2017
Dkpackerfan22 ( new member #62221) posted at 7:27 AM on Tuesday, January 16th, 2018
I’m interested in knowing how to have all his texts sent to my phone
Sarahleigh ( member #60971) posted at 2:29 PM on Tuesday, January 16th, 2018
Swatter555 .... I would also be interested any more info on how to get his texts sent to me. I have been looking into mspy but not sure if this is the best software?
Sarahleigh ( member #60971) posted at 2:29 PM on Tuesday, January 16th, 2018
Swatter555 .... I would also be interested any more info on how to get his texts sent to me. I have been looking into mspy but not sure if this is the best software? Also how would you jailbreak a phone?
Cujochurch ( new member #62265) posted at 5:49 PM on Wednesday, January 17th, 2018
Swatter555 please tell me how to do this. He doesn't back anything up to cloud, to smart for that. However I have his login and password and can have access to phone. I'm also afraid he is just deleting as he reads.
Me(BS)-47; Him(WH)-49
Married 25 years, together 29 years
D-day of EA Jun 2006; D-day of PA Aug 2016; D-day of 8yr OEA & multiple cyber affairs Dec 2017
Hurtbeyondtime ( member #58376) posted at 7:39 PM on Wednesday, January 17th, 2018
I would be interested as well. iPhone thats not jail broken
Thanks
swatter555 ( member #60555) posted at 1:44 AM on Thursday, January 18th, 2018
Let me be clear about a couple of things. No jail breaking here, but you will need access the apple user name and pw associated with the phone... and of course access to the phone. It’s legitimate iPhone functionality, it’s called text forwarding. You will need both phones as you do this.
I’m going to say that if you look up “setting up text forwarding” on YouTube you will get decent tutorials. Try that and let me know if you have any questions. I did briefly set this up on my wife’s phone. I quickly decided that spying provided a false sense of security for me.
To me, all you really need is your phone bill and see how many texts your spouse gets and from where. If there is an affair, it would probably make itself known on the bill. My wife’s text went from less than a 1000 per month and surged to 2300+ during the affair. Just do a lookup on suspicious numbers and you have a strong lead.
It does work, both billing and message forwarding.
BS 44
WS 39
DDay July 15,2017
DDay 2 August 9, 2017
BetrayedbyONS ( member #42603) posted at 10:29 AM on Thursday, January 18th, 2018
But what do you do if you suspect they are using Facebook massager and deleting the messages before you can see them? Those don't show up on the bill and can't be forwarded that I know of.
WS her 34 (when it occurred)
BS me 46 (when it occurred)
Together 9 years, married 5 (when it occurred)
2 children (1 and 3 years old when it occured)
JimmyB ( member #43976) posted at 2:11 PM on Thursday, January 18th, 2018
If you have access to his phone you could use one of the services designed for kids phones, NetNanny or the like. They are paid services, so you would have to figure out how to do that but I think you pretty much get everything from their phone.
ME: 60 Madhatter, 1 PA, 6 months(making out, no sexual contact), 2006. 1 sexual act with a stranger in a car - w/hands, 2010.
WW: 57 Madhatter, 25 year (1988-2013) PA, 3 separate affairs, same OM). 8 year, 2005-2013, EA with 1st boyfriend/lover
swatter555 ( member #60555) posted at 1:46 AM on Friday, January 19th, 2018
There isn’t much that can be done about FB or messenger unless your are willing to spend money. I am pretty sure I saw spy apps that deal with FB and messenger. Many of the spy apps require money per month, but if your really interested in finding out if your partner is cheating, I guess it’s worth it.
I am sorry all of you are here. It sucks to be suspicious like this. It sucks even worse when you catch them.
BS 44
WS 39
DDay July 15,2017
DDay 2 August 9, 2017
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