I’ve been married for 18 years to a man I thought was my "Mighty" protector. One month ago, my world shattered when I discovered he had been maintaining a "Shadow World" connection with a woman from his past—a woman I had once welcomed into my home and fed at my table. For 10 years, they maintained a secret emotional and sexual affair across an ocean, fueled by "cuddling and fucking" messages that made me feel like I was living with a stranger.
Since the discovery (D-Day), it’s been a "Nuclear" event in our home. He is a professional—a Solicitor—who is now "on his knees" trying to prove he wants "Marriage #2." He’s doing the work—transferring funds for my security, crying at weddings, and promising a Vow Renewal for his 60th birthday. But the "stabbing pain" in my heart doesn't care about his money or his tears right now.
One minute I’m the Nurturer who wants to hug him, and the next, I’m pushing him away because the "itch" of his lies is too much. My body is "shaking," my stomach acid is high, and my liver (GGT 367) is fighting to heal from the stress. I suspect he is still "minimizing" the physical details to save his own shame, and the "I don't know" feeling is exhausting.
I’m choosing my own health and my "Golden Era" first. Whether I stay for a new chapter or walk away as an Independent Queen with my security vault intact, I need to know I’m not alone in this fight.
