Elle2 (original poster member #64338) posted at 2:31 PM on Thursday, November 12th, 2026
I found out after going through my husbands phone that his old AP (2 times caught) that he works with (same company different location) has cancer and it’s not going well. He speaks to another secretary at that location who is friends with her (which is a whole other issue that has my spidey senses screaming, but no proof there). He knows about it and I feel like it should have been mentioned to me? Or maybe not? I don’t feel bad for her as I know what she’s done to my family and numerous others, but that lack of sympathy makes me feel like a horrible person. I want to bring it up to my husband bc I also saw she is supposedly finally marrying the man she cheated on and I just feel like my husband has feelings about all of this. I’m certain he’s spoken to her about it all (no proof just my gut telling me), but without proof I know it will be a dead end. I’m just feeling very uncomfortable with this whole thing and I’m not sure how to process it.
Me: BW. WH had multiple EAs. DDay 1 June 25 2018,-DDay2 4/9/2022. I’d had a hunch for a few weeks. Kicked him out and he found a new friend which was the start of EA3. DDay 4 EA 5/7/2024
