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Reconciliation :
Wedding rings triggering...

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so-crushed ( member #29137) posted at 1:37 AM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010

Oh dear gosh... I don't remember when, but there was a period that he didn't wear his wedding ring.. he said it didn't fit, but a few years ago, he had it resized. To think that he had this on while he was screwing OW#1 and OW#2 makes me want to throw up right now. It'll be my first question tonight when he gets home from work.

As for my wedding rings? I have an anniversary ring that I've been wearing since before I uncovered WH's nasty secrets... I've already told him that the wedding rings will never go back on my fingers... they were the rings he put on my finger as he was saying vows to me.

The anniversary band, to me, symbolizes how many years we've been married.

crazyforever... I hope you don't mind if now refer to OW#1 and OW#2 as Thing#1 and Thing#2 !!

Me - BS, 50's
Him - WH, 50's
Married 20+ years

D-Day #2 3/7/17
D-Day, 5/29/10 -found out about 2 PA's:
(1st A - EA/PA, 1998-2003(??) and 2nd A - PA, 2003-2004(??) )

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mommy22 ( new member #25962) posted at 6:38 AM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010

Took off my wedding ring after my husbands 4th affair and haven't put it on since last d-day of Oct 21, 09. I did in fact buy a really nice diamonique ring from QVC that I love and have ben wearing that ever since. It helps keep the questioning of if I'm married away. My WH knows that I want an upgrade on my original ring and when he's ready to re-propose and mean the vows that go with a wedding ring I will get a new one. Until then the QVC one works and Ive actually gotten a lot of compliments on it. You can't even tell that it's not real. My husband knows that I want a new one eventually and hopefully it will come eith a whole new promise that he will ba able to keep.

Me-BS
DS- 4ys
DD- 1yr

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