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keko ( member #35320) posted at 3:34 PM on Wednesday, May 9th, 2012
Well done keptmyword.
One thing that struck me is how some people had suspicions yet failed to tell you anything about it. Or even hint it. Boggles my mind how these "people" can keep a thing like this away from you.
Do you regularly see your wife? Live in the same house? Now is the time to prepare when she gets the calls and starts attacking you. Have a Voice recorder on you just incase she calls 911 and claims domestic violence.
quedagh ( member #24195) posted at 5:22 PM on Wednesday, May 9th, 2012
Listen to Keko about the VAR (voice activated recorder)- a very important thing now that there has been some exposure. Don't let her know you have it. After exposure things sometimes get quite nasty)
WARNING: The blood is thicker than water- Regardless of support now... it will more than likely shift. Sooner than you think, too. Be very wary of this.
Be prepared for the most horrid scenarios you can imagine in your head- Expect the worst and hope for the best.
Hold strong brother.
It may not define you but it sure as hell will affect how you think for the rest of your life.
srb1608 ( member #19477) posted at 5:36 PM on Wednesday, May 9th, 2012
Listen to quedagh! Although they hate what she has done, most often the loyalty lies with them. They tell their side which ofcourse paints you the villan and they become nuetral at best. My H ended up with his parents basically had a bed and breakfast set up. Food, clothes washed, supper cooked....All this from a disgusted mother.
Just be leary of how much info. you give her family about your intentions.
Hang in there!!
BS- me 37
WS -him 37
Married 13 years
keptmyword (original poster member #35526) posted at 5:59 PM on Wednesday, May 9th, 2012
keko,
Thanks. I'm not expecting anything to change but time will tell. These neighbors suspected but didn't want to be involved in case they were wrong. I kind of understand their position. My wife and I are separated only see each other when we exchange the kids and that is always in a public place. She will definitely be angry that I revealed her affair to her family so i'm expecting it.
It has nothing to do with you.
Filed for and proceeded with divorce.
keptmyword (original poster member #35526) posted at 6:10 PM on Wednesday, May 9th, 2012
quedagh,
Yes, I'm very aware that sentiments can change. When I spoke to them I emphasized that I was not telling them to get back at her or to punish her but that I believe she needed help because her lifestyle has become destructive. They actually pointed out they noticed a change in her for the worse some time ago and believe she has been influenced by some friends of hers that they don't like. Her mother actually said she suspected this might be the case. But anything can and will happen. I'm watching my back.
It has nothing to do with you.
Filed for and proceeded with divorce.
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