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Oh Crushed: I was hoping you’d be able to pull that hot potato out the fire and maybe save the vestiges of your marriage; rebuild and make a fresh start.

I’m still not going to give advice. Not knowing her side and only going by what you’ve said; I would put my big-boy pants on and get the fuck out. I know I would suffer and feel like I’ve failed, but I’d find a dumpster, crawl under it, lick my wounds and when healed come out. But I also know that in time I WILL heal and when I come out, WATCH OUT WORLD! The kid is back stronger and better than before! After taking time to find out who I’ve become and how I changed for that other person’s sake, THEN, I’ll take my time and find the RIGHT person who will appreciate the gift of me.

There is no ONE person or animal that has the power to harm me and in turn cause me to hate or fear an entire species, gender, race, nationality, etc. I know the shit you faced overseas; you made it through that and survived, right? You’ll survive this!

Nordicbabe and Irish Lass: Shit comes in many forms and colors. You’ve got Bullshitters, Chickenshitters, Full-of-shitters, Shitheaders, Lying-bastard-shitters, and of course Shit-shitters. – Neither men nor women have the market cornered on this descriptive byproduct. Both sexes can be equal opportunity Cheat-Shitters.

Well Betrayed60453; you’ve hit on something here. At the time The Princess started her affair she didn’t have a substance abuse problem. Moreover, she detested anyone who did and called them weak. So I guess, like you, I was saddled with someone looking for attention. (Never thought of it until I read your reply) Her addiction started, I’m told, because there would be no food in the refrigerator but it would be full of Mr. Wonderful’s beer; from one or two beers to hard liquor, to pills, and the rest of it. But you see Betrayed; I’ve had to accept the fact the I CAN’T SAVE THE WORLD.