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need_hope ( member #23989) posted at 3:02 PM on Monday, December 10th, 2012
Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters
Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.
Amazonia (original poster member #32810) posted at 5:17 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Amazonia (original poster member #32810) posted at 11:31 PM on Sunday, April 21st, 2013
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:24 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Failure is success if we learn from it.
jackie89 ( member #38271) posted at 2:58 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Thanks, I never ventured down there bc I did think it was geared more toward new relationships, and I knew that I was nowhere near there!
I will be posting there next weekend...
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 11:52 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
I remember being too nervous to post in NB where all the big kids played.
Then I saw a thread just like this and mosied on over. I realised I WAS in my NB. So many positive and incremental changes. From little things big things grow.
They can't get rid of me now.
I have a wander through NB, D/S, General. I'm just wild like that.
[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 5:53 AM, April 22nd (Monday)]
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
CrappyLife ( member #37630) posted at 12:16 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Awesome. I just needed a thread like this today. And thanks for bumping. 
It gives me hope that I can have a life beyond the infidelity drama that has become my life.
BBF-turned-BH: 28 (Me)
WGF-turned-WW: 28 (EmotionalFool)
POS1: a 'friend'? WW believed it was my 'best friend'!
POS2: her senior at work!
Together - 6 years
Married - 1.5 years
D-Day- 15/10/12
Don't know where we are headed..
curiouswiz ( member #34405) posted at 1:36 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Thank for this one Amazonia..I jump around in and out of different waters depending on my mood. Lately I've been avoiding JFO, it hurts to much and after the bombing in my hometown I've been a bit raw and so sad it wouldn't do me or anyone any good to go there.
I usually dip my toes in general then on to D/S or I can relate for the NPD fun in my life though I started there because of long term affair and sometimes NB and just recently testing the waters in fun and games..that's a tougher one for me to go to but I always get a chuckle whether I like it or not!
curiouswiz ( member #34405) posted at 1:37 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
oops..doubles 
[This message edited by curiouswiz at 7:38 AM, April 22nd (Monday)]
SweetheartVixen ( member #4956) posted at 4:28 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Thanks for this post, a good reminder for us newbies to venture in there.
I was told by STBX that I am dating and have a guy since I told daughter I was "peaceful" without the lies.
Truth be known, its very difficult especially when I have had all these medical issues that dont stop. Its hard not to have a support system or a body to hug when I am feeling so alone and scared.
BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...
DD 6-14
Amazonia (original poster member #32810) posted at 5:10 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 3:24 AM on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
dindy ( member #38424) posted at 9:58 AM on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013
Great post!
My new beginnings are getting better by the day. Recently I've been able to read a book without feeling distracted in my mind, something I used to do a lot.
Even though I'm on a nice plateau regarding my healing at them moment, I'm really enjoying my own company again.
Long may it continue for us! :)
Amazonia (original poster member #32810) posted at 12:16 AM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
Wanted to bump this. I know that the holidays can be a tough time for a lot of people, but they can also be an opportunity for fresh starts, new beginnings, reclaiming life and making it your own!
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 1:53 AM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Thefly559 ( member #40268) posted at 12:44 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
Great positive post. But I have to say that going into new beginnings for me is almost like going into jfo. I get pain from jfo sometimes when I read the pain that I once experienced. I get jealous of the new beginnings because I read of the success after divorce that I do not have yet. Heaven and hell. I am still in purgatory. I do understand and I do venture once in awhile. Hopefully ill be there full time soon. Thank you for the post and great explanation.
"respect? you don't deserve it, you won't get any from me unless you earn it"
Lost15 ( member #40898) posted at 8:43 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
me(BS)-34 him(WS)-32 DS-15
Married 15 years
Blindsided with divorce 07-12-13
DD-08-1-13 OW-40ish,married 20 yrs, with 4 kids she abandoned
Divorcing and trying to move one tiny step forward at a time.
Divorced: Jan 27,2015 (Ds 16th BDay)He rem
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:11 AM on Sunday, November 24th, 2013
Failure is success if we learn from it.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 7:55 PM on Monday, February 3rd, 2014
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 8:23 PM on Monday, February 3rd, 2014
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
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