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wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 3:54 PM on Thursday, January 17th, 2013
We had something similar happen in my circle of friends....
One guy's wife died after a long battle with breast cancer... Within a month he hooked up with another guy's SO who the deceased wife truly hated... They were suddenly a couple and were married two months later...
It was completely against the guy code to pilfer someone's SO...
No one in my circle has anything to do with either of them... Both of them are essentially dead in everyone's eyes...
WB
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...
James Taylor
gonnabe2016 (original poster member #34823) posted at 4:28 PM on Thursday, January 17th, 2013
At the bare minimum you are supposed to let your friend know so he isn't blindsided in some future argument/discussion with the X
^^this^^ exactly!! And under the circumstances, since BMF doesn't seem inclined to inform G, I would think it would be only right that BMF went NC with G.....I don't think that BMF is the one that is instigating any contact with G but when G reaches out to him, he's still doing the *friends as usual* thing. I think the whole situation is skeevy, and it's nice to know that *my* moral standards aren't too high.
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
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