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CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 8:16 PM on Sunday, April 7th, 2013
Happy Birthday!
I turn 50 this year also. I know I will be OK. This sadness won't last. I am fine being alone. Where I live there aren't a lot of decent single men in my age group, so I don't see myself in a relationship again. But I'm really and truly OK with that. I was never going to get married again after Pigfucker and yet I did.
Life is full of surprises.
((HUGS)) to you ALL!
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 11:09 PM on Sunday, April 7th, 2013
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
BrokenSpirit50 ( member #34485) posted at 11:42 PM on Sunday, April 7th, 2013
SadMad2012 Happy Birthday! Thank you for the inspirational post. You go girl!
Married 32 years, together for 40
DDay Dec. 17, 2011
No R, D June 21, 2012
Me BS 58
Him WH 59
Now with WBF 3 yrs. DD#2 June 5, 2018
Truth is like surgery, it hurts but heals. A Lie is like a painkiller. It gives instant relief but has si
Grace and Flowers (original poster member #34431) posted at 3:58 AM on Monday, April 8th, 2013
Thanks again, everyone.
As I was re-reading the posts, I noticed k94ever's tagline....
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
This ^^^^^^^^!!!!!! This is what I did! Man, it was hard....some hurt lingers, occasionally.....but I believe love and happiness (as well as bitterness and hatred) are choices. I chose happiness as my goal.
And on to 51! 
shyguy ( member #18281) posted at 11:27 PM on Monday, April 8th, 2013
It is nifty being fifty! happy birthday. Things really do get better.
Love stinks yeah yeah(J. Geils)
permanentpain ( member #38312) posted at 11:40 PM on Monday, April 8th, 2013
happy birthday! absolutely loved this post
Me: 32 y/o, student and mom of two of the best kids in the world
Him: 33 y/o scumbag
Divorcing
Feels good to start laughing and feeling better again...
ISPIFFD ( member #26367) posted at 12:21 AM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013
Happy Birthday!! Great post!!!
I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s
Markone ( member #30291) posted at 12:29 AM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013
Happy Birthday!
I turn 50 in a month and by then I'll be in my new apartment. Must say I'm a little scared about both so thanks for the inspiration.
Me BS
Scene of the Crime: West Coast 2010
Divorced.
HappilyUnMarried ( member #21299) posted at 12:50 AM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013
Happy Birthday! I have 5 months left of my 40s and then I join you.
Here's to 50! My life is 100% better now than 40.
True happiness comes from within, not from someone else. Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy
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