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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 12:03 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 12:07 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
you rock. 
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 12:18 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Wow. You are my hero. That is soooo awesome!!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 12:19 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Great job Tesla. Now that you aer skilled in swing-set building you are welcome to come to Ga and teach me how!
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 12:26 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Wow...is all I can say. if you did that, you can do just about anything.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 12:38 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Great job, tesla. So proud and happy for you!
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
timeforchange ( member #27454) posted at 12:42 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
I looked at your photos and can almost imagine your grown up son one day in the future saying my mom was always there for me and even built the play structure alone for me.
You doing that Is an act of love and pretty symbolic of your dedication to Telset.
Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12
“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”
tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 2:00 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Thanks everyone! I'm so proud of myself. My hands and upper body are KILLING me...but so worth it.
Teslet had a hard time coming home but as we walked into the house I told him that I needed him to test some stuff out for me. He was so happy checking everything out. He looked at the roof and said, "wow that rough looks hard." I told him it was pretty hard to build it. He says, "yeah, you could have broken your body making it."
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 2:04 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
That is the coolest playhouse! I'm so glad you didn't break your body making it! 
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 2:05 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 2:55 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
My hat is off to you!! Amazing work getting that together!
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 3:49 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 4:04 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
You rock, Tesla! That is so awesome!
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 5:04 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
All I can say is that I am in AWE of your greatness lady!!! OMG!!!! WTFG!!!!
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
disillusioned12 ( member #37542) posted at 5:09 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
You are a rock star!!!
BS (Me)
WS (H)
Married 5 yrs; Together 10 yrs
D-Day 11/14/12
EA(PA?)
Limbo 1 month
False R 2 months.
Status: Divorce on hold
LeftBehind08 ( member #38705) posted at 5:22 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Way to go! Great work! So friendvious of your talent!!!
Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 6:13 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
OMG!!! You totally have to share this with our gang at S/D!! Love it!! I want one too!
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 6:25 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
AYFKM? What is there that you can't do if you set your mind to it? Great Job.
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
clralb ( member #17185) posted at 8:17 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Wow! Rock on, Tesla!
"To keep the body in good health is a duty... otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear."
Buddha
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 12:19 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
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