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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 6:01 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013
Good for you. I'm glad he's gone. I hope you are feeling a very well-deserved sense of peace right now.
(((Coraline)))
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
peridot ( member #18334) posted at 7:39 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013
You did the right thing. Don't ever forget that we are all here for you. If what he did was enough to get a VPO then he has no chance now in court. You've got him by the balls. Don't drop that VPO.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 7:58 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013
I am so proud of you!! I know you may have mixed emotions but the bottom line is you need to do whatever it is to protect yourself and your children. Hugs and support, dmari
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 8:01 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013
I'm sorry that you had to go through what sounds to be a traumatic experience.....
....but, Coraline. You can actually *breathe* now.
{{{{hugs}}}}
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Coraline (original poster member #36434) posted at 1:01 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Thank you all for the support. Just to give a little information, at least, I wasn't attacked or anything, so that's good. I'm sure he thinks I had no right to do it, because he didn't hit me or anything, but I still didn't feel safe. And really, I hadn't in a while. It was just confirmation that I shouldn't have.
Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 1:58 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
(((Coraline)))
I am so, so proud of you. He tried, but he couldn't break your spirit.
I look forward to hearing all about the fabulous new life you will create for you and your kids!
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
stillstrong ( member #36144) posted at 3:30 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Good for you Coraline. Big big hugs being sent your way. I'm so proud of you girl! Is your aunt still with you?
Me BS 47
Him WS 51
DDay LTA Feb 21, 2006
R until DDay 2EA's 1/31/12 ONS 2/5/12 Broken NC 7/12/12
Moved out 9/12
Legally Separated 3/13
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 3:59 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Good for you Coraline. But be sure to take reasonable precautions even with the TRO in place hon. I'm still haunted by what happened to SweetMisery. Change the locks - keep them locked. ((Coraline))
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 4:09 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Be careful. The WS typically doesn't like having to deal with consequences of their actions- and with a TRO in place, you can't be too careful.
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
AussieMum ( member #36579) posted at 4:43 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Well done to you!! Here's to a whole new level of peace 
Me 47
ExH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS13 & DD8)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14
million pieces ( member #27539) posted at 12:07 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Good for you!
Can you change the locks? Put a lock on the bedroom door?
Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:07 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
stretch13 ( member #26894) posted at 5:18 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
It was just confirmation that I shouldn't have.
congratulations. i'm not sure i've ever seen anyone make that call BEFORE they got hurt. i'm proud of your strength and resolve.
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