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NeverAgain2013 ( member #38121) posted at 3:27 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Awww hon, I'm so sorry you had to be dealt that lousy hand.
I see by your signature that you're in the process of getting divorced. I think that's a real good path you're on and you should continue with it.
I almost feel like this confrontation - as hideous as it was - was a sign from above to let you know you're headed on the right path.
Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.
Gr8Lady ( member #36307) posted at 6:03 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Be strong and kind to yourself.
You did not deserve this behavior and betrayal.
I too had similar situation of WS not choosing me over OW. It is more hurtful than the affair. Just humiliating, plain and simple
You had every right to be there, he just got caught.
Hang in there, so many of us understand your pain
BS: Me (70yo)FWH: HIM (72 yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013
friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.
TheAgonyOfIt ( member #39114) posted at 8:18 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
ohhhhh Bellecatprincess, so sorry. i am so sorry, to have another Dday like that. Agony, and to be in False R, horrible.
One day when the pain subsides I hope you might see this oh so painful event as a gift, which allowed you to see the truth and move on. I struggle with seeing the true colors of my WS; at this point i would almost want confirmation of his A**holeness just so i can move on with clarity.
Wishing you strength
Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Left home, job, whole life behind and difficult** adjusting. Dog injured and too much to handle. Supremely bummed out.
Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 3:38 PM on Monday, May 27th, 2013
What a bastard. I know there's supposed to be no bashing in this forum, but I assume that's meant for a remorseful WS in true R, yeah? So...yeah, he's a bastard. He's eating cake.
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