Sad thing is they both have been cheated on and knows how it feels. That is why I don't understand how they can do it. I would never put another woman thru this, ever.
It is all I can do not to blast him right now, having a hard time holding my tongue. I have scheduled the mortgage to pay one day early on Friday so it goes in with our paychecks that night. I don't want to have to pay it on my own until I absolutely have to. I was told that he has to pay half of it but I fear he will not once he leaves. I will tell him he has to if not whatever he does not pay will come out of his part of the equity if we sell it.
I just don't understand how someone can hurt the one they say they love. It is his fault as much as hers, but she could have said no you are married, but she didn't and now planning a "future" with him. Ugh. I really just want to get it over with, but need to hang on for a few more days 
And the skank calls him sweetie, that is the same thing I call him. He calls me baby doll, wondering if he calls her that 
ETA: All night last night he acted like he had something to say to me, but never did. He even told me this morning he came back to see if I was asleep after I had gone to bed. Wonder if he is going to tell me he is leaving - I got me a nice little note written to send to him after I tell him that explains how I knew he was lying and calling him out on more lies. I know I will not remember it all once I start talking so want to be sure he knows how stupid he was. Apparently that skank is into all kinds of erotica, fantasy etc. He may be in for a wild ride with this one 
Just hoping I don't cry when we talk. I hate that.
[This message edited by Jada52 at 5:01 PM, May 29th (Wednesday)]
