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twodoves ( member #39181) posted at 11:50 PM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
I wish WH would write me one.
Maybe i'll ask him for one later.
Me - BS
Him - WS (N3v3rG1v1ngUp)
Together 7 years, married for 2
He was cheating for 5 years
5 OW
D-days: 4/23/13, 4/27/13, 5/10/13
1 toddler, baby girl on the way in December
Conflicted1 (original poster member #39019) posted at 12:57 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Still no letter. :( I was away 4 days for business trip but no letter. Still holding out a little hope. Sadly thinking the chase to him is the addiction that he mAy never recover from. :(
Honesty is a very expensive gift. Don't expect it from cheap people.
seamonkeydo ( new member #39493) posted at 1:24 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
I asked for a letter and my H was honest in his response back. He said that I could not ask for one on the spot, but that I would get one when he was ready to write it. He told me he did not want to have to fake emotions because I was asking him to be honest. About 2 months later I got my first letter and it made me feel special. He then wrote me another that I could keep on me in case I was having a hard day. It truly is the small sentimental things that make me (at least) the most wanted.
let your past make you better not bitter.
Jospehine85 ( member #35971) posted at 3:04 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
I am trying to locate a love letter from a WH that BW posted in the last 9 months. It was beautiful and I wanted to show it to my WH.
I had asked him to write me a love letter before he left on his last business trip so I would have something for the hard days.
He wrote it about 12 hours before he got home (a little late?) and it basically said "thanks for trimming my ear hairs". I kid you not.
Me - BS
WH - old
Kids
Dday May 2012
STILLWANTHIM ( new member #37717) posted at 5:07 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
It would be wonderful to get a love letter from my WS. I did not ask directly, but I showed him the topic title and hummmed. Maybe he will take the hint 
Me bs 58
Him ws 57
Married 36 years
Children 2, grandchildren 3
Dday 1 2012-11-03, Dday2 2012-12-08
Dday 3 2013-06-20 separating
OnAnIsland ( member #34319) posted at 9:50 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
I have asked for a letter several times in the course of r or limbo or whatever is my Life these days... Don't be afraid to ask for it. Don't be afraid to ask for it again. I haven't gotten it or several other things in ave asked for. But I will ask again. And eventually my needs will be met in this M or I will leave this M.
T/j
Don't get me wrong, my WH is doing a lot of things differently. He has made a lot of important changes. But he is moving slowly. He is only in IC for about 7 months now of our 1.5 years since d day. And he has years to go (at this pace anyway) if he is to figure his stuff out
End t/j
D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013
Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou
seekingtomorrow ( member #39068) posted at 11:03 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
this is a thorn in my side,, I wrote him a love letter, I also wrote him a poem, and he turned the poem into a song as a romantic gesture,, but they were still my words, eve before D-day I always thought how nice a love letter would be but really just dismissed it as hubbys not that type and I was so happy wit him,, but i found out on D-day that he had handwritten and posted her at least one love letter, I don't think I could ask for one,,, but the fact that he took it upon himself to write her one but never in 10 years thought to write me one stings.
D-day 1 august 1st 2012
D-day 2 October 31st 2012
D-day 3 September 10th 2015
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