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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 5:45 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013
(((karma))) I'm sorry. Being a parent has its sucky moments.
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Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 6:01 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013
You're welcome Karma.
Maybe we can get my sister and your in-laws together. They can get together and talk about how wonderful they are and how they know everything and they'll leave us alone! 
Just a thought 
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
karmahappens (original poster member #35846) posted at 7:21 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013
no, you know what sd...my in laws can buy your mom an SUV...they are suddenly loaded and have nothing to do with their money!!!!
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 8:27 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:39 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013
((((karma))))
You are doing the right thing, but you know that already. Now you've got me in the mood to go kick some effing inlaw ass!!! 
((((karma))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 10:12 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013
I just want to pack my bags and go to some beach and plop my ass in the sand....I will come home after everyone gets some fucking IC.
That sounds like a delightful plan. Start looking at travel websites. Seriously. 
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
karmahappens (original poster member #35846) posted at 6:05 AM on Saturday, June 8th, 2013
This is my favorite Meta
“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin
I have been looking at vacations online all day....
And Deadmum, you better take me along with you. We can pick up SD, I think she is only a few hours from me. She might wanna kick some ass too...
And Thank you MissesJai, it is extra tough sometimes huh? ugh!
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 12:36 PM on Saturday, June 8th, 2013
Yes, please pick me up I'm not that far away
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 2:31 PM on Saturday, June 8th, 2013
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 8:28 PM on Saturday, June 8th, 2013
What?! I have an awesome reverse crescent kick. Just sayin' 
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 3:55 PM on Sunday, June 9th, 2013
((((karma))))
Now my inlaws have decided they will save him
My parents, particularly my NPD father, did this with my oldest nephew.
If your parents would like to hear the outcome, I would be glad to share.
Suffice it to say, it did my nephew no favors.
It's been a tremendous wedge in our family---really, it caused the ENTIRE extended family to implode.
The implications can be extremely far-reaching.
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
karmahappens (original poster member #35846) posted at 7:31 PM on Sunday, June 9th, 2013
Christ, Solus ...I get it, I do.
My sister died in a drunk driving accident at 17 
...my family was/is well known in the town and she was brought home drunk on numerous occasions by the police prior to her accident, as a favor to my parents/family. I would never say this to my parents, because I am sure they know....but if she had NOT been granted those "favors" and had my parents taken her car away for her previous screw ups...she would be alive today. It's the truth, my parents and the police did nothing to help her by avoiding the "trouble" she would have been in for her actions, instead she is dead.
I don't blame my parents, it was a different time...but I see the writing on the wall, I am screaming and nobody wants to hear me.
...I know the ending, I just do not want to relive it
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 7:46 PM on Sunday, June 9th, 2013
(((HUGS)))
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
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