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gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 5:58 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
No put up the twat one too !
Guess we did T/J.
Sorry Mac !
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 6:00 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
Oh alright then... 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 6:01 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
Thank-you ! Makes me laugh and the wine helps.
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
macakipa (original poster member #33735) posted at 6:02 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
No apology necessary this is what I needed!
Goodnight!
M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 6:03 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
click4it ( member #209) posted at 6:46 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
((((((mac)))))))
There are those days and its ok.
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 7:06 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
Sorry to be late but I am here too. Hope you get some rest and tomorrow is a better day.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 5:12 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
I'm waaay late to the party, but just wondering how you're doing, mac??
A new day brings new perspective.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
macakipa (original poster member #33735) posted at 11:18 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
Hi Williesmom 
I was feeling better this morning. Then I found out the XH is back with his last OW with whom he has had a LTA since fall 2008.
I am so filled with anger and I can't understand why. I thought I was close to feeling indifferent. I think all of the milestones with our children set my emotional roller coaster on full speed.
I hate this. I hate him. I hate feeling hate!
M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 12:33 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Indifference will come.
I felt that way when wxh was quickly able to move from one whore to the next.
In my case, he deserves every whore that he finds.
It's taking longer for me because the man that I need isn't the man that I need yet.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Helen of Troy ( member #26419) posted at 1:29 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Hey Mack here is some extra support from a fellow ltm, formerly married to a serial cheating scumbag.
There's still room at the party table for the guest of honor (you) so pull up a chair and grab your tiara!
stronggirl72 ( member #37293) posted at 3:22 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
I know exactly how you are feeling. You've gotten a lot of advice (and great laughs) here.
If I were to add anything it would be to say that some days will be worse than others. What works best for me is to not fight, but embrace, the hatred or sadness or whatever emotion that each day brings. Most importantly, you are not alone!
(((macakipa)))
"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."
DIVORCED!!
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