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InnerLight ( member #19946) posted at 6:17 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2013
Rebuilding my deck with neighbor and SO, and my mom makes us lunch.
Going to SO' bosses party. Wish he would take that money and give raises instead, hopefully this will be short.
Massage on Sunday.
Making card swaps for a STampin up convention I'm going to next week in Salt Lake City.
BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
InnerLight ( member #19946) posted at 6:17 AM on Saturday, July 13th, 2013
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BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 1:36 PM on Saturday, July 13th, 2013
Sorry; I can't divulge until it's over, but it's definitely NB-related. 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Tictac ( member #23993) posted at 3:36 PM on Saturday, July 13th, 2013
Friday night I invited my BF over for dinner, watched TV, he stayed over. Worked on Saturday, then grocery shopping, gardening & dog walking.
Figured I wouldn't invite myself over to the BFs place AGAIN, I'd wait for him to call me. Which is why at 10.30 at night I'm here on SI.
Me : BS 42 - Him : WS 47
OW 32
Married 16 years - no kids
D-Day 15th April 2009
Separated November 2009.
Divorced August 2011
WH moved 3000km to be with OW. Must be "true luuurve"!! I think 3000km is a fairly good distance!
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 3:54 PM on Saturday, July 13th, 2013
Saaaaaaaaaaaad...... that's so not nice!
Or maybe it will be. 
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
exhausted lady ( member #30217) posted at 8:44 AM on Sunday, July 14th, 2013
I'm reeling. My father died on Tuesday. My mother moved in with me the same day, and she's not dealing well with it (at all). She's been bed-ridden for 2 weeks now with "back pain". I know it's probably 25% physical pain and 75% emotional/mental, so I'm trying to help her through it. She has dementia, and is scared to death about facing life without my father.
But, I've had some damned good family members come from 200+ miles away to help out. Times like these really show you who you can count on. I am blessed in many ways. My Bear has moved heaven and earth to help me through this....this man is a "keeper", no doubt.
This weekend, I'm planning my father's Celebration of Life to be held at my house, preparing to put my mom in a nursing home for rehab/physical therapy, and just trying to cope.
Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...
God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 5:06 PM on Sunday, July 14th, 2013
(((exhaustedlady)))
I'm sorry to hear about your father.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
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