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Reconciliation :
5 years later and we're doing great... hang in there.

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StepAside ( member #29826) posted at 1:58 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

MrsDoubtfire! Great post, so happy to see you (both) doing so well. :)

Me 48yrs, king of douchebagastan- 50yrs STD infected bankrupt NPD sociopathic drunk thief
countless A's, he is a predator that targets losers like himself
Last Dday 04/12/2010-Divorcing if/when his cumdumpsters lend him some $ or balls to file

posts: 1522   ·   registered: Oct. 12th, 2010   ·   location: Ingersoll Ontario
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HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 4:38 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled

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letitout ( member #38288) posted at 2:29 PM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

I really, really needed this post. I'm 6 mo out and think it will never get better. Little things are, but not great enough or fast enough for me. You have made me hopeful for the future.

BW 57, WH 66, 19 yo twins
Married 28 years
2 years of $$$$$$ prostitutes.

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NewMom0220 ( member #39036) posted at 2:35 PM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

I needed to read this. Thank you for sharing a positive outcome.

Me: BS 37
Him: WS 37
20 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.

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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 3:48 PM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 7:52 PM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

I loved reading this thread today! So uplifting.

fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024

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catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 8:45 PM on Thursday, August 1st, 2013

So happy for you!

We are not as far out, but I too have a much better H, father and person. He's even sweeter to the pets! I'm starting to think the changes will last and relaxing and enjoying it.

We'll see what it's like in 4 years!

Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled

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mysticpenguin ( member #38839) posted at 1:44 AM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013

Thank you for this awesome, insightful post!! :)

Betrayed

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