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kickboxer ( member #39858) posted at 10:36 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
I'm horrified for you.
POF is where my WH found one of his ONS. He picked her out...he literally went shopping for an affair partner, and then desecrated our vows while I was home cooking his dinner and mothering our children...then I worked until midnight to help pay the bills (I work from home).
I can't go through this only to have it happen again in 6 years.
Why? WHY do they do this?
BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 15 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.
pewpewpew ( member #38116) posted at 10:43 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Ugh.
I am so sorry.
THIS is my biggest fear.
May I ask how you handled the first offense? Counseling, etc?
Any idea how after 7 years of R you are back?!
BS - 32
DDay 1: July 2012 - EA with COW
DDay 2: March 2015; same COW
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, pack your shit and get out.
Fool me twice, now what?!?!
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:17 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Time to throw him back. I'm so sorry.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
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