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Seriously, what do I do with wedding pics?

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damncutekitty ( member #5929) posted at 10:57 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013

I gave all the photos of "us" to my XH. Engagement, wedding, vacations, etc.. I only kept photos of friends and my family from those years.

There is one photo of me from my honeymoon I wish I had kept, but XH wasn't in it and I only wanted it as proof that at one point I was kinda thin. (I was a size 14 on my honeymoon)

12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.

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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 11:27 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013

I left them at the marital home with XWH. If he wants to burn them or throw them out, that's on him. I kept all of our other photo albums since I'm the one who took about 98% of the pictures and then organized and labeled them. My kids have plenty of pictures to look at in those albums of us as a family, enjoying ourselves (that is, if XWH ever really was).

The wedding pics? I felt like the whole day was a hoax since XWH obviously never meant to honor any of those vows, so I didn't feel strongly about keeping those for the kids.

FBS; now happily liberated!
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It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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 TLhurting (original poster member #25156) posted at 9:13 PM on Saturday, August 31st, 2013

Thank you all for your advice and stories. I'm in a good place now, they're in a box in the back of a cupboard. Sometimes I see the box and I feel like I should DO something. But I really don't have to.

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