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mike7 ( member #38603) posted at 4:57 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013
hurts,
honestly, i don't know why you put up with this.
You're the one who was betrayed.
I think you need to lay down what you will accept and be truthful. In other words, if she doesn't come to the party heart and soul, just tell her you're going to move on.
unless you are content to put up with this nonsense the rest of your life.
but if you're not strong enough to walk away, nothing will happen. It's pretty apparent to me that she's calling the shots.
BH 60
WW 58
Two grown kids
DDay 1/15/2013
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 9:28 PM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013
I didn't read all responses so I apologize if I repeat advice already given. Your wife sounds like she is unremorseful. The comment about the books not having anything that blame premarital issues or the other spouse speaks volumes. She insults you to ignore her own issues and tbh I think she might resent you for ending her A, perhaps even blames you for her AP throwing her under the bus. She seems to run away from the things that show her what she was actually capable of being, someone who could utterly destroy someone else through their own selfishness. I'm a MH but was a WS first and speaking from that role she is not remorseful and needs a lot of work. I'm sorry you are going through this.
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