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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 1:12 AM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
NC and move on EW - best for both of you. ((Hugs))
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
clralb ( member #17185) posted at 1:26 AM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
Woe! Block him and don't write to him. He has some major issues going on. One of the many nutty people we run into throughout our life.
Had you said to him "your rude to people, a child molesting cereal killer, I think you're responsible for burning The Hindenburg and sinking the Titanic, and by the way your car is ugly", he would still tell people you dumped him over his car.
Of course an ugly car is a turnoff and deal-breaker! 
"To keep the body in good health is a duty... otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear."
Buddha
birdy ( member #30937) posted at 5:34 AM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
What a nut job! You sure dodged a bullet.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 3:33 PM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
He just showed you he is not well emotionally.
NC and block him. If this is what it is like after one meeting, imagine the rest. YIKES!!
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
forced2moveon ( member #12014) posted at 5:07 PM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
I personally think you're spending too much time analyzing his letter, especially if you only had one date is a huge waste of time!
If I received such a letter, I'd chalk this guy up as a NUT CASE and move on! Who cares what he thinks about you!?
Way too much drama for me!
Housefulloflove ( member #38458) posted at 5:02 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
So much teenage angst from what should be a GROWN ASS MAN!
Goodness, he's ranting like a 13 year old being dumped for the first time to someone he barely knows. And the whole thing about no one wanting to have sex with him... 
He's got MAJOR issues. And apparently he wears them on his sleeve like badges of honor. You didn't dodge a bullet, you dodged a heat-seeking missile.
Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013
Exit Wounds (original poster member #32811) posted at 4:03 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
You didn't dodge a bullet, you dodged a heat-seeking missile
Ugh! Dating is sooo much fun 
Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
asurvivor ( member #32368) posted at 4:40 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
While reading this letter, a Shaw quote popped into my head.
"It is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid" and with this guy I would add the word "and clueless" to the end of this quote.
This is just weird, scuse me while I pull the pillow over my head.
I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.
hardtimesinlife ( member #10468) posted at 3:28 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Is anyone else wondering if he offed his wife?
Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)
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