This Topic is Archived
SeanFLA ( member #32380) posted at 3:27 AM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
And while I know he'd do it... I also know how much he loves that dang phone, and I hate him losing something he enjoys so much. Especially when it makes life so much easier.
Let me ask you this...how much does he love his dang wife? Don't you think he would hate losing something he enjoys so much...YOU?!
Your making excuses for his poor behavior that it's because of this phone...fuck that. It has nothing to do with his phone. It has to do with his immature and weak boundries. He's like a 7th grader getting caught looking at porn on his cell phone. What happens?... He broke the trust so bye bye phone. You need to explain to him that this phone is your trigger and you aren't going to stand for it...period. If he refuses to change, you have to follow up on your threats. You can't nice him into making the right decision. Believe me when I say I tried that. It was the worse mistake I ever made.
BS(me) 53
WW 52
1 son 20 yrs old
Married 18 yrs, together 21 yrs
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have." ~ Bob Marley
This Topic is Archived