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5 years out - A few thoughts

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forgivingnow ( member #33549) posted at 1:28 PM on Tuesday, January 21st, 2014

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Me-BS 57
FWH-57
M 37yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yours

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 3:17 PM on Tuesday, January 21st, 2014

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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RomanticInnocenc ( member #43041) posted at 5:34 AM on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014

I know this is an old post, but I stumbled upon it and it really spoke to me! Just wondered if there were others out there who might benefit from this wisdom and experience!

Me: BS 34 WH: 32 (theseseatsRtaken)
DS1: 3 DS2: 1 DS3: 2 months
T 13 years, M 5
DD1: 8/1/2014 DD2: 10/1/2014
"Live so that when your children think of fairness and integrity, they think of you!" H. Jackson Brown

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Dobegirl ( member #41837) posted at 4:09 PM on Thursday, June 19th, 2014

Thank you

Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, OL profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12...and many more
False R 2 LONG years
Time is a thief when your undecided

posts: 159   ·   registered: Dec. 30th, 2013   ·   location: Northern Indiana
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BetrayalHurts ( member #34836) posted at 7:05 PM on Thursday, June 19th, 2014

Thank you

M 25 years
BW Me - 50's
WH Him - 60's
OW 25 years younger
D-Days too numerous to mention last D-day being 12-2-11 *OW went on fishing trip 5-21-13*

"A relationship is only made for two, but some bitches don't know how to count"

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StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 7:22 PM on Thursday, June 19th, 2014

Tushnurse, your insights are always helpful to me and an inspiration...

Today is my 21st wedding anniversary. Certainly a day of mixed feelings. I am so grateful to read some positives here today. Trying to successfully navigate the post-A fallout and struggle through everything that has affected me and my family is the greatest challenge of my life. I am grateful for the veterans of this site who stick around to offer support and wisdom to those of us working our way through this mess. Thank you.

Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R

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Mochagurl ( member #14660) posted at 2:47 AM on Friday, June 20th, 2014

Tush nurse, thank you so much for a wonderful post. You are a hard cookie with no sugar frosting. You say what needs to be said always. And you say it clear and matter of fact, not mean. I thank you for that.

I don't know where you were a couple of years ago when I started posting, but I must say I respect your posts and take them to heart.

Thank you for the time you spend on this site.

Me: BS-56
Him: WS-56
Married: 36 years
Divorced: 11-17-15
DD 36, DD 26, DS 23, DD 20
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.

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